If we want to find a soulmate by going to a cafe or a party, we will usually have a closer interaction with a small number of people, which means that only a few people can turn down or show interest in us. When we show interest and realize that it is not reciprocated, the almost instinctive reaction is to become insecure and doubt our worth.

When we want to become better or more attractive to the opposite sex, we have to keep our eyes open to reality. It sometimes happens that we believe so strongly in something that we do not allow ourselves to see any other option. We must visualize situations and be aware of reality.